I am having an angry moment today. My children, grown with children of their own, just do not seem to care about my husband and myself. But then, my husband and I never created an expectation that caring about us was important - we always told them to live their own lives and never worry about us; however, this was not what we anticipated: complete abandonment. So, I am rewriting my will and leaving whatever is left to my grandchildren. Really should not matter anyway. The children are old enough and have their own lives. Well, have speulled that off my chest :)!